EQUAL PARTS ADVENTURE AND SELF CARE
My life has not been a straight line by any means. I did not spend my girlhood planning my wedding or playing house. I dreamed of travel, adventure, and independence (I may have wanted to be a marine biologist, so I could swim with the manatees in the Amazon, but also wanted to be a hardened gumshoe). There are a lot of aspects of our culture's expectations that have never made sense, so I have carved my own path, and gathered my fellow weirdos and libertines to me along the way. Perhaps you crave the same.
It's what has led me here, offering my gifts of open connection, sensual collaboration, and mojo retrievals. I'm less a muse than a partner in crime, a co-conspirator. It's at my feet that you shed all the roles you're expected to play in your everyday life. Self care is not just bubble baths and spa days; it's about betting on yourself, taking risks, being vulnerable. It's learning to heed your gut when it says, "fuck yes!"
I don't say this with arrogance, but your life could quite literally change when you start seeing me; not because I am exceptional, but because your higher self is asking to shake things up, and you are finally saying YES, YES, YES!
TASTES AND PROCLIVITIES
I feel eternally blessed and privileged to have a career that offers me so much freedom and free time, as my interests are endless. I am a renaissance woman--an enthusiastic, but not masterful: Writer, textile artist, rule-breaking chef, songbird, bon vivant, dandy, river goddess, interior decorator, kitchen witch, yogi, book nerd, and part-time nomad (paradoxically, I'm also a home body).
And speaking of passions, I am solidly in my sexual prime. Let me tell you, my 30's are a million times more fun than my 20's. My soft yet muscular curves were made to be touched. I am what the kids call 'pansexual', meaning: I am attracted to the whole gender spectrum. I am drawn to a person's insides, as that's the source of true beauty. I am like a sultry kitty cat--lured in by back caresses, raw salmon, and toys ;)
I'm a well-balanced hedonist. I dabble in kink and BDSM (I'm kind of a holistic domme), but I'm much more driven by the chemistry and energy we create together, whether that be dark and intense, light and joyful, or everything in between. Basically, if you're more interested in fixating on your kink or fetish, than playing with our dynamic, we're not a good fit. If there's something you want to explore and we have a stellar connection; I'm game.
AGE: Dirty 30's
DRESS+CUP SIZE: US 6 to 8, 34DD
SHOE SIZE: US8/EUR39
STYLE: Feminine tomboy
MUSIC: Fleetwood Mac, Frank Ocean, Matthew Dear, Nina Simone, Patti Smith (so like, anything good)
STAR TREK OR STAR WARS: I want to live in a Star Trek Future!
CUISINES: Vietnamese, Northern Thai, Southern Indian, sushi, pizza (unfortunately must be gluten free, because I'm cursed with celiacs)
PORTLAND RESTAURANTS: Nong's Khao Man Gai, Little Bird, Murata
CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT: My stove top espresso maker, nude beaches
BACKPACKING OR GLAMPING: Glamping please!
LOCAL GETAWAY: Orcas Island
FAVORITE CITY: Rome
TYPE: Softly masculine and tender hearted nerds
RECENT READS: In a Lonely Place, Pleasure Activism, Braiding Sweet Grass
GIFTS: Local blooms, fine chocolate, gift cards to Lille Boutique, Powell's, Etsy, Whole Foods, Nordstrom, Solstice Intimates, Doe Bay, Classpass, West Elm, Sephora, Airline miles, and seasonal local fruit.